Category Archives: Older guys

Male exemplars in the movies: Sugar Daddy and Protector

Used sparingly, the ‘Sugar Daddy’ role can be used to great effect. Used too often and the male is in effect buying the company, loyalty and so on of the female. Used to excess, the male is placing the female into a dependent [Child] position by the fact that he constantly adopts a [Parent] superior orientation in relation to her. When taken to excess, he not only buys her loyalty and dependency, but he also robs her of her choices.

In this clip we see a great example of a more beneficent and appropriate ‘Sugar Daddy’
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Starting new relationships all over again

People can often think of he dating game as being an occupation for young people, but of course, people of all ages find themselves in situations where they have to start new relationships all over again. This struck me recently … Continue reading

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